You are a house manager. Now, cook!
"We are not housewives."
This is what I tell my students when they talk about missing the good old days back in their country, not having to be in charge of the house. I say, "We are not housewives. We are house managers!" House managers? What the heck does that mean?! A house manager keeps the house in pristine shape and the meals yummy enough to have the husband/wife coming back happily from work every day. (My darling keeps saying, while having dinner, "This is delicious, I should recommend you!" To what I always reply, "Please don't!")
A house manager runs this activity as a side business because he/she must focus on figuring out who he/she is, what he/she is doing in this country, and how he/she will prevail in reaching a blissful spiritual state. How can one seize such a tough and arduous goal? There are many ways, I suppose. In my experience:
This is what I tell my students when they talk about missing the good old days back in their country, not having to be in charge of the house. I say, "We are not housewives. We are house managers!" House managers? What the heck does that mean?! A house manager keeps the house in pristine shape and the meals yummy enough to have the husband/wife coming back happily from work every day. (My darling keeps saying, while having dinner, "This is delicious, I should recommend you!" To what I always reply, "Please don't!")
A house manager runs this activity as a side business because he/she must focus on figuring out who he/she is, what he/she is doing in this country, and how he/she will prevail in reaching a blissful spiritual state. How can one seize such a tough and arduous goal? There are many ways, I suppose. In my experience:
- During blue periods, make sure you have wise friends to talk to. You feel alone, but you aren't. Ask for help! (blue: depressed or unhappy)
- On shiny days, have fun enjoying the craziness of it all!
Various activities fill the to-do list of a house manager. Among them, the cooking cannot be avoided (most of the time). Therefore, I would like to share with you my favorite Dutch food blogs. I like them because:
- They are in Dutch. It is so easy to find the ingredients at the supermarket. No more translating!
- I get the Dutch vibes! They have personality, rhythm, and are healthy!
- Reading in Dutch always helps you learn new vocabulary.
- I feel rooted. It's my country now and I am part of it.
Last, but not least, here are my favorite three blogs. Take the time to explore. Try them out. Have fun while at it!
ZONDERZOOI. My favorite recipe is bietensoep met kokosmelk en gember.
EVIE COOKT. Check out the tomatenrelish uit India.
FAB & FIT ON A BUDGET. For breakfast, don't miss the carrot cake pancakes!
SAUDALICIOUS. Haven't tried any recipes yet, but I will!
Have a nice weekend and tot volgende keer!